Coaching an athlete in transition

Coach Denis Vachon has written an article for CBC Sports about helping the young transgender woman Emily train while transitioning.
Vachon points out that as “a young boy,” Emily was timid, shy, stuttered a bit and had a difficult time looking you in the eye. When Emily was 12 her mother asked Vachon for a meeting. She told him that Emily had told her parents that she was meant to be a girl. They were honoring her wishes.
Vachon writes:
The change in E (her nickname until she chose Emily) was instantaneous. Gone were the timid, fearful days of the past. She came to training confident, happy, and full of stories. Her energy was contagious. It was like having a new athlete in the group. Physically, the changes were a tad slower, her hair started to grow longer, her attire began becoming more feminine and because of that, eyes started wandering and voices started whispering.
Vachon tells the story of how he explained Emily’s new life to her male co-athletes. He is clearly surprised as to how well that went:
Kids really can be better than adults. They have the capacity to be open-minded, encouraging and willing to grow. It’s mind-blowing to me, how a group of teenagers, most of whom were boys, embraced E for her bright qualities. They had no care for the gender transition that was happening. Teenagers are publicly blamed for so many transgressions in our society but this experience showed me that kids are responsible for a lot of good in the world.
Good!

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