35 posts tagged pansexual

“Straight couples shouldn’t be at pride”

pariism:

dragon-from-the-burning-mountain:

anidragon:

moshingtothesherlocktheme:

Well uh…

1.) one or both of people you see as a “straight couple” could be pan/bi/poly/ace

2.) one or both of them could be trans or non binary

3.) you could be misgendering someone

4.) They could be there to give moral support to a queer friend or family member who didn’t want to go alone.

Number four is important

5.) Pride is not about excluding people for their sexual orientation. 

(via bluemoonsyrup)

Meet The Country's First Openly Pansexual Legislator

sallymolay:

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Mary Gonzalez […] says one way she tries to change minds among her colleagues in both parties is by fostering a “familial” bond, which she believes goes a long way toward helping people “overcome a lot of their prejudice.” […]

She first came out as pansexual — which is distinct from bisexual because it defines an individual who is attracted to various gender identities — in 2012 after first being elected, noting that she’d dated transgender and “gender-queer” people. […]

“The media labeled me [as a lesbian]. I always identified as queer or LGBT-identified or pan. When I first came out in politics, I used to say I was LGBT-identified and the media took that [as], ‘Well she must be lesbian’ as opposed to having a more complex understanding of our sexual community. And so, because of that I had to clarify that and say, ‘No, not lesbian. Love them. [laughs] but…’ I identify as pan and talk about what that means. And having those conversations does bring up gender diversity and the trans community. And so, I’ve been able to have a lot of conversations about that in the political world in Texas.”

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The androgynous genderf*cked queer trans*-butch pansexual genderqueer wonder-boi dad with birth-experience.

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Here is the fascinating tale about he trans dad who gave birth to a son, but who still find people trying to lock him up in traditional gender roles and a socially correct vocabulary.

Kory S writes:

“…I’ve been boxed in by labels and faulty ideas by even the most supportive and well-meaning of people – even those that fall under the LGBTIQ umbrella themselves.  Apparently, I have transitioned from totally female to totally male because I needed to be 100% boy – fuck my experience, or hell, even my actual identity…you know…the one I claim for myself, by myself, that is made out of my experiences and sums up who I essentially am.”

Read the whole story here!

(See also Sally’s post on transgender parents Bianca and Nick Bowser!)